Today, I want to share something that’s been on my mind and in my heart. You know those moments when you look back and realize you’ve let someone else hold the reins of your life? It’s tough to face, but it’s a crucial part of our journey.
A while back, I found myself feeling utterly powerless. It wasn’t just one person or situation; it was a series of little moments where I felt like my decisions and emotions were being controlled by others. Maybe it was a critical comment from a friend that made me doubt myself, or a someone who made me feel small. Each time, a little piece of my confidence chipped away, and I didn’t even realize it was happening.
One day, I stumbled upon this quote: “If anyone has ever held power over you, figure out how you unconsciously gave it away. Once you understand your own insecurities and your own wounds allowed this to happen, you can restore it.”
It was like a light bulb went off. How had I been giving my power away without even knowing it?
I started to reflect on those moments where I felt powerless. I dug deep, asking myself why those situations affected me so much. I realized it was my own insecurities and old wounds doing the talking. Seeking validation from others, fearing conflict, doubting my worth – these were the culprits.
It was a hard pill to swallow, recognizing that I had allowed this to happen. But it was also incredibly freeing. Knowing that I had the power to change things meant I could take back control. It wasn’t about blaming myself but about understanding myself better.
I began to make small changes. Setting boundaries was one of the toughest but most rewarding steps. Saying no without feeling guilty, protecting my space and energy, and reminding myself daily of my worth through positive affirmations – these practices started to shift the balance.
The journey wasn’t smooth or perfect. There were days I slipped back into old habits, doubting myself and seeking that external validation. But each step forward, no matter how small, was a victory.
What I want to share with you is that this journey of reclaiming your power is deeply personal and unique.
It’s not about becoming invincible; it’s about becoming aware.
It’s about understanding that you have the strength within you to change the dynamics and reclaim control over your life.
It’s a journey of self-discovery and growth, and every step you take is something to celebrate.
So, wherever you are right now, embrace it fully. Recognize your worth, set those boundaries, and trust yourself. You have the power to shape your own story, and it’s a beautiful one.
Let’s celebrate every step together, and remember, you are worthy, capable, and incredibly powerful.
Tonganoxie • Kansas
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Thank you for sharing your story. Many years. ago I was miserable. I went to my dad to talk about how”so and so hurt my feelings and made me so mad.” He told me, “You let them make you mad. No one can control your feelings, but you.” It took me a long time to digest that and finally accept it. But you are right. It’s very freeing and it had allowed me to remove people from my life that kept trying to control me.