You can glow in your darkness! Screw ups in life happen! Some of them we deserve and some of them we wish we could receive a little more grace on. I currently fail my husband, my kids and my friends and family daily. Some days our selfish pride just seems to show more than others.
We all have hard day for lots of reasons. Knowing how to show love to others when you don’t feel like it can be hard. Putting your feelings above others is selfish. Putting other people first is selfless.
If we go through another day in my life and never hear the words “selfish” and “selfless” again, it would be a good day! Balancing the two is a huge challenge. Maybe you have it all figured out! Kudos if you do…however, I still struggle. My mind starts screwing with me and the line between the two becomes very blurred and I start questioning everything I say or do even when I am “SURE” of what I think is the right thing. I know I am not alone. I pray that at some point in my life, all women will be confident in the interactions they have with others When they are negative, I pray that we are able to discern our beliefs and not let someone else waver our thoughts, unless the Lord is trying to speak to us and heal us. Second-guessing your beliefs and thoughts is detrimental to anyone.
Know this though….Beneath the destroyed ruins of the woman you are, lays the heart of the woman you are meant to be. Click To Tweet
Perhaps you’ve known it all along, maybe you even needed to break in order to discover this ripe truth, but regardless of the methods—the more you break, the more you became yourself. Only through breaking are you able to see all that is holding her back. Only through the chaos are you able to find your peace, and only through heartbreak are you able to discover the love that has always been within.
It is only through diving into your pain that you are able to surface into your healing. And so, let yourself sink into everything that had ever caused you pain, each moment and childhood wound, until there is nowhere to go but up into whatever lay waiting for you—you only need to be brave enough to try.
What makes you be able to make broken look beautiful is that you never try to hide your scars.
Don’t pretend to be anything other than who you are, and my God, there is nothing more beautiful than a woman who can glow even within the darkness of her own broken pieces.
So what can you learn in that darkness?
Empathy, grace, patience, perseverance, and trust!
There is an honesty that you wouldn’t have seen otherwise! Through darkness comes light, through fear comes love and through pain comes triumph. This is victory of the human spirit in every one of us.
Through your struggles and hardships, you are able to reach deep inside yourself and discover more of who you are. It takes a lot of heat to make a diamond!!
Your story will resonate with someone else who is going through a hard time. They will relate.